Welcome to the den of Follow Chipper — where kink meets craft, education meets empowerment, and play is always intentional.
I’m Chipper: a leather-loving, service-forward leather man, intimacy educator, event producer, and your go-to guide for navigating kink, sex, polyamory, and relationships with curiosity and confidence.
Here, you'll find a curated mix of everything I’m working on:
Webinars & Workshops on kink, sex, dating, and emotional well-being
1-on-1 Advising sessions for individuals, couples, and polycules
A Private Studio & Online Shop offering leather and fetish gear I love (and soon, gear I design)
Podcast: From Ruff to Chipper – real talk on intimacy, identity, and community with my pup Ruffus
Play Parties & Events that celebrate connection, embodiment, and joy
This is more than a site. It’s an invitation to follow desire, pursue self-acceptance, and build kink-forward community with heart.
Chipper says: Don't wait to explore your edges.
Follow your snout — and sniff me out.
lovingly,
CHIPPER
P.S. This website in under construction! Please visit us in early September for the updated experience.
learn. grow. play.
Workshops That Work
Every month, I host small-group online sessions where we cut through the noise and get into real, practical techniques for dating, romance, and kink. It’s hands-on, it’s fun, and you’ll leave knowing exactly what to try next.
Private Advising
Sometimes you need more than tips—you need a co-conspirator. In our 1-on-1 sessions, we’ll go deep into your sensuality, relationships, polyamory, or kink life to unlock what’s possible for you. No fluff, just focused attention and real results led by your needs.
Daily Doses of Chipper
Catch me on Instagram and TikTok for quick, no-BS education about kink dynamics, polyamory, and connection skills—served with a wink, a grin, and zero shame.
from ruff to chipper
Every Monday night, join Chipper and his pup, Ruffus, for From Ruff to Chipper, a live Instagram series where we dig into the world of kink, polyamory, and everything in between.
We tackle timely subjects and news, share personal stories, drop tips and tricks, and answer your questions—always with honesty, humor, and a pup’s playful bark. Each week brings a new topic, a fresh perspective, and a chance to connect.
Mondays at 7pm CST / 9pm EST
Live on @followchipper
Follow @FromRuffToChipper for full episodes that drop on Tuesday and updates and clips.
Follow Quality. Follow Chipper.
Big news: Follow Chipper is expanding into gear and goods—both online and in a brand-new Brooklyn studio opening soon.
Expect Chipper Approved™ leather, rubber and kink essentials, all chosen for their quality, longevity, and timeless-with-a-twist style. Think Mama Leather originals, Villain Garçon rubber, impact toys, the Brown Bottle, lubes, bandanas, toys, and more.
chipper is…
an adventurous and confident facilitator of sex-positive interactions and explorations.
a fierce champion of unapologetic self-confidence, integration, and visibility.
an intimacy coach, educator, and advocate, with a queer perspective and voice.
a sober man in recovery, continually seeking spiritual realization.
a practitioner of the art of Tarot and a conjurer of Magick.
left: photo bruce hardin
of fox lepup, momma ember, Sir LT
middle: photo chris kelley
right: photo bruce hardin